There is no one right way.

We are all unique individuals, so what works for one person will not necessarily work for another.

And what works for you at one stage in your life may not be as effective at another stage. Believe me, things change as you get older and weight loss gets harder.

There are lots of strategies for weight loss, some good and some not-so-good. Some are expensive and some relatively cheap.

Which one should you pick?

I am not very directive with my clients. I have some strategies that I’m using. They work for me, so I’m happy with that. But I realise they may not be right for you.

The most important thing is to DO something. So I ask my clients what they are prepared to do, and run with that.

Most of us actually know WHAT to do, but we don’t actually do it.

No strategy will work unless you implement it.

What I find is the key to weight loss for my clients is winning the mental game. This, along with some encouragement and accountability, makes all the difference. Then you will find that whatever strategy you use WORKS!

That’s why it makes so much sense to have a life coach. If this interests you, contact me.

Too much social media is bad for our mental health. “When we derive a sense of worth based on how we are doing relative to others, we place our happiness in a variable that is completely beyond our control,” says Dr Tim Bono, author of When Likes Aren’t Enough.*

On social media everyone puts up only the best of their photos, using special angles and lighting. It is often photo shopped or filtered, to get the perfect effect. And even though we know that is so, we still compare ourselves with what we see and feel dissatisfied with how we look.

In media and advertising, being thin is associated with wealth, success, popularity and sex appeal.

But you don’t have to look like a magazine model to be healthy and happy.

HEALTHY: I believe that health is our real wealth, and should be our number one focus. If you have any health issues, it would be wise to address them as a priority.

Also, love the body you are in. If you do this, you will lovingly feed it nourishing foods and take whatever other steps are necessary to ensure you feel great physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually.

HAPPY: Happiness is an inside job. It is a choice, a state of mind, and based on gratitude and self-love.

Happiness will never come from conforming to the media’s ideal body image. If you want to lose weight and it comes from a feeling of lack or not being good enough, you may find that you still feel that way once you’ve lost the weight. Amazing, but true.

So make sure your focus is on being healthy and happy.